This is not about trust. This is about self-interest and verification of self-interest.

这与信任无关。而是关乎自我利益和自我利益的验证。

They prefer to discipline themselves rather than be disciplined by others.

他们宁愿自我约束，也不愿受制于人。

Those who are unable to defend themselves.

那些没有能力自我辩护的人。

She was self-soothing. The system was working.

她会自我安抚的 她的自我调节系统在工作。

And I hated introducing myself, especially in groups.

我厌恶做自我介绍，尤其是在群体里。

Stay true to who you are.

要实的自我。

The researchers concluded that so-called reciprocal liking is a self-fulfilling prophecy.

所谓的相互喜欢是一种自我应验预言。

Today we introduced ourselves to each other. We did this in groups.

今天我们做了自我介绍。我们是分组进行的自我介绍。

Confident people do not have an inflated view of themselves.

自信的人不会自我膨胀。

That's what I tell girls about me.

我都那样自我介绍。

Insularity and self-containment, it is argued, go hand in hand.

他们争论说，心胸狭窄和自我封闭是并存的。

That how ego manifests itself and how it is difficult to get out of the ego.

自我如何表现自己 以及如何难以走出自我。

Regularly engage in the practice of self-care.

定期进行自我护理。

By the terrible alchemy of egotism you converted your remorse into rage.

在自我中心可怕的点化之下，你的愧悔变成了暴怒。

Joy is not the expansion of self, it's the dissolving of self.

但乐趣不是自我膨胀，而是自我溶解。

What about self-denial, then? If you had a God, you'd have a reason for self-denial.

那么对自我否定你们又怎么看呢？既然有上帝，你们也就有自我否定的理由。

Now we're also in the era, today, of quantified self.

现在我们处在量化自我的时代。

The core of her successful defence was that she knew nothing.

她自我辩护成功的关键是她对此一无所知。

This may be caused by an absence of a sense of self.

这可能是因为自我感觉的缺失导致的。

And then they can practice on their own.

然后它们可以自我练习。